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Grief

Nothing. Before there was nothing, and after would be nothing. Life is all we have in between. But we never appreciate life, untill someone close leaves us. Leaving us with grief, just grief.

On the infinite canvas of time, our lifetimes are nothing but a blip. It's there, and then it's not. Our existence is mere a blink of an eye in the fabric of this universe. So insignificant.

But What's significant anyways? It's everything that we value the most. It's our hearts that decide what's significant in our lives. And often it's the people we love the most and care the most. Not the materialistic world.

And when a person leaves us, abruptly or not. The only emotion they leave us with is pain. And there's no way to run away from it. There's no solution to feel better. There's simply nothing that a person can do. Just pure helplessness.

An then there's grief. Grief is emotional suffering you feel when someone you love is taken away. It's that time in life when everything appears pointless, life itself feels meaningless, and yet all we want is that person back into our lives. Ironically.

But grief is important. We should cry, we should scream, we should put out everything that we have in our hearts. It's a way of showing love. In a way, it's the goodbye the human deserves. It's the closure of a relationship which completes it. 

I have always found life similar to an endless train journeys. We all aboard at some station, and we leave at some, but the train goes on. We find people, we make bonds. We welcome new people, and we goodbye to the ones leaving us. 

And just wave them off, with heavy hearts.


P.S: This one is dedicated to the father of one of my closest friends, who left us. May his soul rest in peace.


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