In school we are taught that we should be like trees. We
should adopt their nature. The art of Giving. At that age we even believe that
stuff. And then comes the stage of Teen Age. Now everyone is telling how
ruthless the world is. And you have to become selfish. For a while you are
confused that if giving, being generous, is a good thing, then how come
selfishness is going to lead a sound life. At least I have been through that. I
am sure you will remember that one person who calls you only in need. Now, your
mind start analyzing that may be its good to be selfish. It’s easy. It doesn’t require
any extra effort. And, most importantly if others are selfish then what’s wrong
in being one. Finally, you turn into that person who calls only in need.
So is it good to be selfish? Truly speaking, I don’t know. But
I can tell one thing, I know what it feels like when we behave selfish. It’s
one of those feeling, that you cannot live with. Over a time, the impact of
that guilt is carried away, still it leaves some shadows. Shadows that will
scare the shit out of you. Every selfish act is that nail you hit on the wall
of your conscience, which will be there forever. Even if you try to remove
nail, its mark is undeniable. And any person with a heart of gold, can take
only few hits. After that, you start questioning about yourself, your
principles for life.
Whenever there is a decision to be made, think more than one
person’s perspective. Narrower the perspective, lonelier you get. On the
contradictory, broader the perspective, may be you will make others happy, may
be they will stand by you, may be you’ll make friends, or none of this will
happen. People might think you as an idiot. But one thing is sure, you will
have peace. You will feel proud, for being a human.
So next time, if you feel
to be selfish, look in the mirror. And ask that reflection, if it is worth a
nail in the wall.
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